OnlyFans has become the popular entertainment platform for various industries, notably for adult content. It’s so popular, you might accidently be looking at your neighbor’s genitals on your twitter feed. Actually, it’s so popular every person you seem to like has an OnlyFans. This impels the question: What is one to do?

Relax, for Now

Dating is complicated in its entirety, so discovering that your partner has an OnlyFans is an instant heart drop. Every time you find yourself in lust with someone, a surprise always arises from under some rock. A rock that you never thought to pick up and look under. This is not an easy time when you find out your partner has an OnlyFans, but don’t panic and have the meltdown of the year. Sometimes, when you move too swift, you’ll regret such move. It’s potent to go into this situation with clear ears and eyes.

Do Your (Own) Research

You asked your bestfriend if they knew your partner, and they told you “I’ve seen them on Twitter,” or “They have an OnlyFans,” is not enough to make any decisions about your partner or the status of your relationship. In the early stage of discovering your partner has an OnlyFans, do not immediately bring it to your partner’s attention. It’s important to do all the research you can beforehand. Browsing Twitter and subscribing to your partner’s OnlyFans account is evidence you need to see for yourself. Through this research you will unjumble feelings of hurt and shock, but the fact is now you know. The fact that you know your partner is imperfect, just as you are.

Discover Your Stance

Bring it back, bring it back – your sane that is. Sometimes, you’re so in lust with someone that you think everything about them is pure. Reality is, even you aren’t pure. Think of your secrets that are yet to be revealed. It’s justified to feel a diverse of feelings and emotions, because you may have to accept that remaining in your relationship will entail your partner to have sex with multiple people to sustain their OnlyFans. If you’re selfish like me, this is dead on arrival. It’s dead on arrival, because sharing isn’t always caring.

Those kisses are mine only.

That body is mine only.

Them sexy legs are mine only.

That good loving is mine only.

It’s mine only, period.

Hear Your Partner’s View

The conversation about your partner having an OnlyFans likely won’t be civil, but don’t go haywire and lose your cool. Going haywire is not going to make your partner delete their OnlyFans. It’s not going to make you feel any better, but worst. In a way you have to uphold self responsibility for not doing your research, in the beginning. Therefore, it’s righteous to let your partner speak and to be open-minded to their perspective. To be open to hear the story of why OnlyFans is their way out of hardship. Why they never told you. How they think they can sustain their OnlyFans and love you at the same time.

It may be bullshit, or it may not be, but the least you can do is listen.

Weigh the Chances

Before you run out of your partner’s life, weigh the chances of your relationship being durable. If it’s less than 70% percent, the chance is less likely to remain together and be happy. This is true, because externals factors ruin many relationships, and OnlyFans might evolve into one of those factors. It’s uneasy to know in the back of your mind, that your partner’s sexual abilities are all over the internet. The feeling of being exclusive, now feels like your running on empty. The feeling of being chosen, now feels like another doomsday. The feeling of being loved, now feels like a personal problem. If your gut says the chances are slim to continue your relationship, save your heart the breakage. It’s over.

Realize the Reality

The verdict is clear: If you have an OnlyFans, be upfront about it to your partner. They will discover your OnlyFans, sooner than later. There is no judgement in anyone who has an OnlyFans, because there is money to get. At the same moment, understand it’s not the best image to people who is looking for a partner to be exclusive and potent with. It can sometimes give the image that you are for everybody, that you have no morals, that you seek attention in any way or form. Even if the image portrayed by you having an OnlyFans is solely perception, it’s an image that may be indelible. Just like fame in its entirety, having an OnlyFans isn’t all diamonds and pearls.

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